a web-book based on sermons delivered at
Grace Presbyterian Church
Characteristics of the Christian
by Pastor Bob Burridge ©2001

Chapter 4
Optimistic Living

We regularly face troubling challenges as we live in this world. And at the root of all our hard struggles is sin. When Adam sinned in Eden corruption spread to the souls of every one who would descend from him. This corruption is the foundation for physical as well as spiritual adversity, sickness and death.

Romans 5:12 Therefore, just as through one man sin entered into the world, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men, because all sinned

God summarized the corruption that sin would bring when he pronounced the curses. He told Eve that there would be a struggle between her offspring and Satan. Then God said to her in Genesis 3:16,

"... I will greatly multiply your pain in childbirth, In pain you shall bring forth children; Yet your desire shall be for your husband, And he shall rule over you."

Then God said to Adam ... (Genesis 3:17-19)

  1. "... Cursed is the ground because of you;
    In toil you shall eat of it All the days of your life.
  2. Both thorns and thistles it shall grow for you;
    And you shall eat the plants of the field;
  3. By the sweat of your face You shall eat bread, till you return to the ground,
    Because from it you were taken;
    For you are dust, And to dust you shall return. "

These far reaching effects of sin, both in our world and in our hearts, are why people constantly struggle against temptations and become morally confused. We see a society flooded with crime. Neighbors often find it easy to justify breaking the law, or lying in circumstances which they think are minor or unimportant. Justice is often perverted into injustice, and immorality becomes the treasured ethic of a fallen world. Even believers often find it hard to cope with calamities such as natural disasters, disease and death itself.

God never promised that believers can escape these kinds of things in this life. But he has given us a way of rising above the agony and discouragement that can accompany such troubles.

Those who have a negative outlook are often called pessimists.
Those who have a positive outlook are usually called optimists.

This is a huge topic with many vast territories to explore. Our mind-set as believers, and how we respond to adversity, involves the whole issue of sanctification and spiritual maturity. Therefore, this study only attempts to be an overview to help us along to a more optimistic way of living.

You have all probably heard the standard jokes, stories, and classic sayings about optimism and pessimism. I did a quick search of the internet about these two midsets using the google search engine. In less than half of a second it returned 21,900 web sites containing both words.

The most posted example was the old poem written by McLandburgh Wilson (with variations) Between the optimist and the pessimist,

The difference is droll.
The optimist sees the doughnut;
The pessimist the hole!

There were 1,820 web sites with either that whole quote or variations of it, including a few that identified themselves as Jewish humor sites where they substituted a bagel for the doughnut.

There were 1,721 web sites telling the story of the optimist boy who was given a pile of manure for a present. Keeping with his character, he started excitedly searching expecting there must be a new horse hidden somewhere.

The old tired saying about seeing the glass either half empty or half full appeared 4,390 times. But there was an interesting update of that one for our computer age ...

An optimist would say the hard drive is half full.
A pessimist would say the hard drive is half empty.
A true computer geek would upgrade regardless.

These examples point out a clear difference in outlook. They show what we see in people, and they're classic illustrations of trite humor. But none of them really gets to the heart of the issue.

There is an optimism the world invents,
which is a counterfeit of the biblical version.

There is a head-in-the-sand optimism.
This form of optimism just tries to ignore negative things. It refuses to face problems or admit to things not going well. Its nothing less than lying to self, or at least a denying of the truth to one's self.

There is a false optimism that pretends to be Christian, but is not.
It says that it expects things to work out for good by faith. But what is meant by faith is only wishful thinking. It doesn't mean finding encouragement according to what God has actually said. It believes something to be so, simply because it's believed to be so. Faith becomes the creator of hope rather than a gift of God and the ground of hope. This is pure existentialism and New Ageism, not biblical Christianity. Christian optimism should not be unrealistic or willing to overlook unwelcome truths.

Christian optimism begins by seeing things
with a God-centered perspective

Everything fits in with the bigger picture, as God directs his universe. Shorter Catechism question 7 says,

"The decrees of God are, his eternal purpose, according to the counsel of his will, whereby, for his own glory, he hath fore-ordained whatsoever comes to pass."

There are some key parts in that answer:
1. God has an eternal purpose
2. His eternal purpose is according to what he desires, according to his will
3. He directs all things, without exception, for his own glory

That means that sin, disappointments, failures, defeats, crime, persecutions, and eternal judgments all fit together into the large plan of God. And all of it promotes his glory.

Therefore, as we try to understand things around us, both the things we like and the things we dislike, we need to keep this main principle in mind: God's sovereign power and infallible decrees move all things toward his own glory.

God, in his word, clearly explains his sovereignty over all things: Its a teaching found in every section of the Bible. For example ...

Psalm 135:6 "Whatever the Lord pleases, He does, In heaven and in earth, in the seas, and in all deeps."

Nahum 1:3 "Jehovah doeth His will in the whirlwind and in the storm"

Matthew 10:29-30 "Are not two sparrows sold for a cent? and yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered."

Revelation 4:11"Worthy art Thou, our Lord and our God, to receive glory and honor and power; for Thou didst create all things, and because of Thy will they existed, and were created."

If we knew nothing more than this, we would still have the most important encouragement a person could ask for. Since God is absolutely in control of all things there is no reason for discouragement.

Of course we still sometimes get discouraged. But in Christ we know it doesn't have to be that way. We don't have to hide our heads in the sand and pretend nothing bad will happen to us. And we don't have to fool ourselves with wishful thinking. God rules over all things and moves them toward a glorious end.

Nothing is left to chance in God's universe. Calamities don't blindly stumble our way. They are part of something bigger than our own expectations and understanding.

God never has to change his eternal plan, though he reveals it in stages to us. There is no enemy that can force God's hand, or derail his plans.

Even the wicked, when they strike out against God, only serve him though ignorantly. The unbelieving hands that nailed Jesus to a cross for execution meant to silence him. Instead they became the tools in God's hand that finished the work of Salvation. Peter explained in Acts 2:23

"this Man, delivered up by the predetermined plan and foreknowledge of God, you nailed to a cross by the hands of godless men and put Him to death."

God didn't excuse this most horrible sin. But he turned the diabolical scheme around.

Though we might not appreciate their importance, even hard times have a good purpose.

Romans 8:28 "and we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose."

Just a few examples from the Bible can help us apply this important principle:

In the time of Habakkuk there were
serious threats against God's people.

The prophet had become discouraged, so he asked God to explain. In chapter 1 he prays for understanding ...

  1. How long, O LORD, will I call for help, And Thou wilt not hear? I cry out to Thee, "Violence!" Yet Thou dost not save.
  2. Why dost Thou make me see iniquity, And cause me to look on wickedness? Yes, destruction and violence are before me; Strife exists and contention arises.
  3. Therefore, the law is ignored And justice is never upheld. For the wicked surround the righteous; Therefore, justice comes out perverted.
  1. Why hast Thou made men like the fish of the sea, Like creeping things without a ruler over them?
  2. The Chaldeans bring all of them up with a hook, Drag them away with their net, And gather them together in their fishing net. Therefore, they rejoice and are glad.

Because of his discouragement, Habakkuk waited for God to explain.

2:1 I will stand on my guard post And station myself on the rampart; And I will keep watch to see what He will speak to me, And how I may reply when I am reproved.

But God gave a different kind of answer than he expected.

2:4 Behold, as for the proud one, His soul is not right within him; But the righteous will live by his faith.

God pointed him toward his duty instead of toward his obsession with the problem. The redeemed, those made righteous, are to live by trusting what God has made known. What God has not revealed should not be our concern.

This brings us back to that verse we quote so much ...

Deuteronomy 29:29 "The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our sons forever, that we may observe all the words of this law."

This doesn't mean we shouldn't work hard to find out all than can be known. But it does mean that God's reasons behind things should not be guessed at beyond what he says.

As children, there are many things we should leave up to our Father. When we worry about things we can never control or explain, we show a mistrust in our Father. We trouble ourselves unnecessarily with unfounded anxiety about God's secret work, often to the neglect of our own revealed duties.

King David also became discouraged
by the seeming success of the heathen.

In Psalm 2 he asked why the heathen nations get away with being so bold and wicked?

  1. Why are the nations in an uproar, And the peoples devising a vain thing?
  2. The kings of the earth take their stand, And the rulers take counsel together Against the LORD and against His Anointed:
  3. "Let us tear their fetters apart, And cast away their cords from us!"

Then the Psalm reminds us who is in charge ...

  1. He who sits in the heavens laughs, The Lord scoffs at them.
  2. Then He will speak to them in His anger And terrify them in His fury:
  3. "But as for Me, I have installed My King Upon Zion, My holy mountain."

Its a superficial delusion to see success in wickedness. The discouraged heart doesn't look far enough.

Part of David's life was spent being hunted by armies of kings trying to kill him. But through it all he remembered that the kings who tried to kill him were never beyond the control of God. He wrote the so often repeated words of Psalm 23:4

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

Joseph knew God's sovereign assurances too:

When his brothers conspired to kill him and sell him into slavery Joseph later said...

Genesis 45:7-8 God sent me before you to preserve for you a remnant in the earth, and to keep you alive by a great deliverance. Now, therefore, it was not you who sent me here, but God; and He has made me a father to Pharaoh and lord of all his household and ruler over all the land of Egypt."

Genesis 50:20 "And as for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about this present result to preserve many people alive."

So God uses even the sins and selfish attitudes of his creatures to accomplish his decrees. This doesn't excuse the sin. But it shows that evil is employed to accomplish God's wonders.

Paul was a very optimistic prisoner!

From his captivity in Rome he wrote the letter to the Philippian Church. In the fourth chapter of that letter his words teach us a clear lesson ...

  1. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
  2. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
  1. Not that I speak from want; for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am.
  2. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need.
  3. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.

Christian optimism responds to negative things
with confidence, peace and resolve.

We leave the success of things to God, and we accept the things that are beyond our own responsibility. In place of confusion we should have a sense of duty and promise.

Noah was not a pessimist simply because he expected a calamity. It wasn't a sense of impending doom that drove him to start making an ark long before there was a flood. He understood that it was not his responsibility to stop the flood. He turned his attention to the duty God had called him to perform. He made an ark.

We need to remember this when we go about our duties too. When we explain the gospel to others or stand up for God's truth and law: Some may not believe. Some may ridicule us or think we are foolish. Some may even persecute us. But our duty is to represent Christ and his grace which has been shown to us as sinners. It's God's work to change the hearts. It's our duty to tell others about the good news he has provided.

Remembering the Sovereign hand of our Loving Heavenly Lord, should give us a positive attitude as we look for our duties and appreciate his blessings.

In whatever circumstances that come; a lost job, a lost election campaign, sickness, seeing pain in someone we love, losing our house to a storm, or realizing that our car spends more time in the repair shop than in our drive-way, we can rest joyfully and securely knowing that the hand of God which employs all things for good.

God is glorified even in a sinner's rebellion, in a nation's fall or corruption. These will one day dramatically display his attribute of justice and holiness. Such things humble us, knowing we deserve the same wrath, yet we see his grace and love. These things work together in the larger good plan.

Our mind-set is the key. We need to see things with a God-centered perspective. Everything fits in with the bigger picture, as God directs his universe. His sovereign power and infallible decrees move all things toward his own glory.

This brings us back to a familiar verse. Instead of fixating on the problems or on the pain, there is a better way ...

Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things.

The right cosmic perspective is to see all things as the unfolding of God's wonderful plan.

Romans 8:28 "and we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose."

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